Mistress Ivy

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63yrs female spanker, London

experienced spanker looking for a submissive boy

Last online today

I expect money
I'm divorced
looking for a woman, man, couple
5ft 2in (157 cm)
11st 7lb (73 kg)
I prefer hard spanking

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Hello.

I work exclusively with people who understand the depth and responsibility that genuine power exchange requires. My practice is built on consistency, trust, precision, and the deliberate exercise of control—never empty theatrics or performance for its own sake.

My involvement began years ago through direct personal experience of firm structure and real consequence. What started as private exploration of discipline and surrender gradually revealed a natural capacity to hold space for others seeking the same intensity. Over time I refined that ability into a professional offering: carefully designed sessions in which authority is complete, limits are respected, and every element serves a clear purpose.

I focus on serious, intentional BDSM. Sessions may include:

- Detailed spanking, paddling, and caning
- Over-the-knee discipline, corner time, and classic corrective methods
- Domestic and institutional role-play scenarios
- Remote accountability, assigned tasks, and ongoing structure
- Sissy training, chastity, and psychological humiliation
- Foot, boot, and stocking worship
- Strap-on play
- Obedience training, protocol, and financial domination

This is only a sample of what is possible; custom sessions can go considerably further.

Every encounter is deliberate. I do not rush, dilute, or soften the experience simply to make it more comfortable or easily accessible. Those who approach me are expected to know what they want and to commit fully once the dynamic begins.

I do not offer free sessions, trial periods, or casual experimentation. My time and attention are reserved for individuals who recognize the seriousness of this work and are prepared to engage with it accordingly.

If this aligns with who you are, introduce yourself properly and state clearly what you are seeking. Those who approach with genuine seriousness will receive the same seriousness in return.

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