knestrel

26yrs female spankee, Norwich

Submissive looking for a Discipline Dynamic

Last online over 30 days ago

I don't expect money
I'm single
looking for a woman, man, couple
5ft 7in (170 cm)
15st 6lb (98 kg)
I prefer hard spanking

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Hello there!

I am a 26 year old Submissive, who is also queer, polyamorous and transmasculine - meaning though I was born female, I identify largely as male and use he/they pronouns. I am happy to discuss my identity with anyone, as long as you are respectful and coming from a genuine place, so feel free to message me if you have questions!

Corporal punishment and spanking have intrigued me for as long as I can remember, and remain a primary part of my kink identity. Though I do class myself as a masochist, and get a level of enjoyment out of pain, I do also find spanking to be a genuinely useful and beneficial method of discipline that has helped me make genuine positive changes to my life, and this is something I would be keen to explore with others who believe in the effectiveness of real and genuine corporal punishment.

Looking to find other like-minded individuals to continue to explore my love of impact play, in both a fun lighthearted way as well as in a genuinely disciplinary way. I'm particularly looking for a more ongoing arrangement to help support me with meeting some of my personal development goals. This is something I have found spanking to be an incredibly effective motivator for in the past, and would love someone to give me a helping hand with this again!

I have played pretty hard in the past and still enjoy pretty long, intense scenes when the mood strikes (or I deserve it!), but OTK spankings will always be my favourite. I enjoy someone with a firm hand (both literally and metaphorically) who isn’t afraid to put me in my place, particularly if I’m being a little bratty, and give me the discipline I need to keep me in line (bonus points for scolding and corner time!). Outside of spanking I am interested in a wide variety of other kinks within the BDSM umbrella, and am open to chatting and exploring these with the right person! Equally, while I identify as male and want to be treated as such in my real, vanilla life, I have found my gender identity is a lot more fluid when it comes to kink, and often enjoy playing as female during scenes.

I am quite a slow replier; please bear with me, I will reply eventually!

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