Daisyxox

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37yrs female spankee, London

Seeking a kind, firm woman to take me in hand

Last online in last 30 days

I don't expect money
I'm single
looking for a woman
5ft 4in (163 cm)
8st 10lb (55.3 kg)
I prefer hard spanking

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I’m looking for an experienced older woman with a naturally kind but firm manner, who might enjoy taking me in hand for occasional disciplinary spanking sessions.

What appeals to me most is the psychology of genuine accountability. I’d like to be able to honestly self-report the things I’ve let myself down over, perhaps not keeping a sensible bedtime, procrastinating, or failing to stay on top of things I’ve committed to, and know that when I come to see you, I won’t be able to talk my way out of the consequences. I’m drawn to someone caring and warm, but strict and unwavering when discipline has been earned.

I enjoy traditional bare bottom spanking, particularly by hand, as well as the slipper or hairbrush, with the cane reserved for when it’s genuinely warranted. I enjoy the embarrassment and vulnerability that is involved in traditional discipline, and the psychological aspects are just as important to me as the spanking itself: a firm lecture, having to explain myself, corner time to reflect, or perhaps writing an apology or account of where I’ve gone wrong.

Ultimately, I’d love to find someone I trust enough to see occasionally and develop a genuine rapport with, someone whose authority I respect and whose disappointment I would genuinely rather avoid. For me, discipline works best when it comes from a place of care: being firmly held accountable, given the opportunity to put something right, and afterwards feeling that the matter is resolved and we can finish with warmth and perhaps a hug.

I’m not looking for cruelty or someone playing at being angry. I’m looking for calm, confident authority from an experienced woman who understands that sometimes being cared for can also mean being firmly taken in hand.

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