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Damselx

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English Maso Submissive. Dungeons. Sweet. Shy.

Sex:	Female
Orientation:	spankee
Location:	Redditch
Age:	33 years
Sponsoring:	I expect money
Marital status:	single
I'm looking for a:	woman, man, couple
Height:	5ft 7in (170 cm)
Weight:	14st 0lb (88.9 kg)
Preferred spanking:	very hard
Last login:	1 hour ago

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Giggles and tears. Face to face only. Genuine submissive who loves dungeon play. Sexually open, intimate& affectionate. All BDSM covered. Accepting of all tools/implements. Deeply responsive. Impact, pain, and suffering are not degrading or humiliating for me. It is sexual and empowering.

I am a genuine submissive who values trust, communication, and aftercare. I respond best to deliberate, connected play where reactions are real and the exchange is mutual. When I feel safe and guided with intention, I open deeply and give my submission honestly. I do not perform, act, or roleplay. Everything is real for me, including my reactions and the rush of intensity. I prefer to build connection, understand each other’s rhythms, and create scenes that feel meaningful both in the moment and long after they end.

I am not a weak submissive. My submission is powerful. I am far from passive or mindless. I have character and spirit and will speak freely and communicate well, (unless gagged). I give myself to pain and suffering and will choose it, leaning into it willingly, still feeling everything, giving you my surrender.



Based around Worcestershire and the West Midlands.

I am a masochist. Pain itself is not the point. It is what it unlocks in me that matters. When someone knows how to take me there with care and intention, I fall apart in the most beautiful way. Each strike, each word, becomes something I carry inside me. Sometimes that opening comes with quiet giggles, sometimes with tears. Both are real, and both come from trust.

Submission and connection are everything to me. I do not give lightly, and I do not fake what I feel. My reactions are honest, unforced, and rooted in the exchange we create together. When trust is present, I give completely.
I do not need to be punished in order to feel pain. I willingly endure, struggle, and feel when I am held with presence and care. I crave intensity wrapped in tenderness. Bruises that mean something. Breath that trembles for a reason. When I am guided past what I thought I could take and praised for staying, I melt completely. I do not play to prove I am strong. I play to feel, to trust, and to be known.

What I offer
A space of real surrender and emotional honesty. Spanking, impact, and pain that is deliberate, connected, and deeply felt. I offer my body, my mind, and who I am as a person. My submission is not a role I play. It is something I live when the right connection is there. I need to be handled with presence, purpose, and care.

What I love most
• Pain that arrives slowly, with weight and intention
• Trembling that is read as trust instead of resistance
• Praise that finds me right at the edge
• Aftercare that feels like being rebuilt from the inside out

Practicals
Discretion, kindness, and emotional depth matter most to me. Payment is always upfront when we meet and communication is clear. I prefer ongoing connections or carefully arranged scenes with people who understand intensity and aftercare.

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