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BaredForRules

spanking-focused dynamic

Sex:Male
Orientation:spankee
Location:London
Age:40 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:separated
I'm looking for a:woman, man, couple
Height:6ft 0in (183 cm)
Weight:15st 11lb (100.2 kg)
Preferred spanking:hard
Last login:online today

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Submissive male, 40, London – strictly spanking-focused dynamic
I’m a straight male who thrives in the submissive role. Open to women, men, and couples – as long as the dynamic is strictly about discipline and spanking, with no sexual context involved.

I have some experience but still consider myself in the learning phase. I’m looking for an older (50+) experienced and consistent partner who enjoys structure, rules, consequences, and a respectful, trust-based power exchange.

I prefer full nudity as part of the session – for the sake of vulnerability, exposure, and accountability. At the same time, I strongly prefer the use of implements (belt, cane, paddle, etc.) over bare-hand spanking, to maintain a clear boundary and minimize unnecessary physical intimacy.

Please only reach out if you’re genuinely able to respect the non-sexual nature of this dynamic, even in the context of nudity.

I will only respond to thoughtful, well-written messages. This is not a casual or simple topic – it requires clarity, mutual understanding, and maturity.

I’m based in London and can travel within roughly a 50-mile radius. Discretion, consistency, and mutual respect are essential.

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