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So my name is Joe, nice to meet you. :)
Fetish me: I'm primarily a spanko/dom/top. Always had the spanking obsession from as far back as I can remember. The usual story of looking up spanking in the dictionary and being fascinated by any references in books or tv shows. Since I first got to engage with this with my first girlfriend, I knew it would have to form a major part of my romantic life going forward.
Over the years I've developed various offshoots of this and branched out into roleplay and various aspects of BDSM more generally, though spanking is still my primary fetish.
The other major thing I enjoy is being a top/dom/daddy (all very different roles). I love creating and enforcing rules, I love attending to the needs of someone who's willingly offering me submission and trust, I love giving out praise when earned, giving out gold stars and rewards, but also punishing and correcting bad behaviour and rule breaking when required. I enjoy BDSM in sex, but to me there's very much a separation of 'discipline' and 'pleasure' spanking and punishments. I'm fine with either, but I think it's crucial to make a distinction when entering into a relationship dynamic with someone. Some people like the lines blurred, and with communication that's ok, but a definite good starting point is to consider discipline and pleasure as distinct. Some people like one or the other, some both. I'm in the latter camp and would ideally look for a partner who shared this.
Those are my primary kinks, but I'm open to trying most new things.
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joem500
Male spanker looking for long term relationship
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | Solihull |
| Age: | 36 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| Weight: | 15st 3lb (96.6 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for free
Remember him
So my name is Joe, nice to meet you. :)
Fetish me: I'm primarily a spanko/dom/top. Always had the spanking obsession from as far back as I can remember. The usual story of looking up spanking in the dictionary and being fascinated by any references in books or tv shows. Since I first got to engage with this with my first girlfriend, I knew it would have to form a major part of my romantic life going forward.
Over the years I've developed various offshoots of this and branched out into roleplay and various aspects of BDSM more generally, though spanking is still my primary fetish.
The other major thing I enjoy is being a top/dom/daddy (all very different roles). I love creating and enforcing rules, I love attending to the needs of someone who's willingly offering me submission and trust, I love giving out praise when earned, giving out gold stars and rewards, but also punishing and correcting bad behaviour and rule breaking when required. I enjoy BDSM in sex, but to me there's very much a separation of 'discipline' and 'pleasure' spanking and punishments. I'm fine with either, but I think it's crucial to make a distinction when entering into a relationship dynamic with someone. Some people like the lines blurred, and with communication that's ok, but a definite good starting point is to consider discipline and pleasure as distinct. Some people like one or the other, some both. I'm in the latter camp and would ideally look for a partner who shared this.
Those are my primary kinks, but I'm open to trying most new things.
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