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I’m a genuine spanker /disciplinarian, someone who’s been drawn to the world of spanking for as long as I can remember. It wasn’t just curiosity—it was a quiet certainty that this was a part of who I am. In my early twenties, I finally took the plunge and started exploring it properly, and that’s when I realised there were others who shared this same instinct, this same need. Since then, I’ve gained experience as a firm but fair spanker, and now that I’m single again, I’m looking to connect with someone who truly wants to explore the discipline dynamic.
For me, it’s not just about the spanking itself—it’s the reason behind it. The structure. The accountability. The ritual of it all. I’m drawn to domestic discipline: real consequences, real rules, and a safe space for correction and growth. That means scolding when it’s earned, quiet moments in the corner for reflection, and a proper spanking over the knee—by hand first, then perhaps something a little more persuasive like a hairbrush or the belt, if the behaviour warrants it. And yes, aftercare matters too—comfort, reassurance, and that shared sense of connection that comes after the storm.
I’m open to the occasional playful scene or roleplay, and there’s a time and place for “just because” spankings too. But at heart, I’m most aligned with the discipline side of the dynamic. I’m looking for a regular partner—a genuine connection with someone who shares these values. Friendship comes first, but if something deeper grows from that, all the better.
I’m not interested in fleeting encounters or married folk sneaking around. I’d like to meet someone single, ideally in their mid-thirties to late forties, and within a reasonable distance so that real, face-to-face connection is possible. I know it can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack—but there’s no harm in trying.
If we do connect, I’d prefer to meet for a drink in public first—something relaxed, easygoing. I’m calm, down-to-earth, and I believe in being upfront, respectful, and kind. If I read your message and don’t respond, please don’t take it personally—it just means I didn’t feel the match was quite right.
Discipline, to me, is a gift of trust. And if you’re someone who’s ready to receive that with an open heart, then perhaps we’ve got something to talk about.
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OTKMaster
Firm hand, fair rules
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | Leicester |
| Age: | 54 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 1in (185 cm) |
| Weight: | 11st 6lb (72.6 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | in last 10 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
I’m a genuine spanker /disciplinarian, someone who’s been drawn to the world of spanking for as long as I can remember. It wasn’t just curiosity—it was a quiet certainty that this was a part of who I am. In my early twenties, I finally took the plunge and started exploring it properly, and that’s when I realised there were others who shared this same instinct, this same need. Since then, I’ve gained experience as a firm but fair spanker, and now that I’m single again, I’m looking to connect with someone who truly wants to explore the discipline dynamic.
For me, it’s not just about the spanking itself—it’s the reason behind it. The structure. The accountability. The ritual of it all. I’m drawn to domestic discipline: real consequences, real rules, and a safe space for correction and growth. That means scolding when it’s earned, quiet moments in the corner for reflection, and a proper spanking over the knee—by hand first, then perhaps something a little more persuasive like a hairbrush or the belt, if the behaviour warrants it. And yes, aftercare matters too—comfort, reassurance, and that shared sense of connection that comes after the storm.
I’m open to the occasional playful scene or roleplay, and there’s a time and place for “just because” spankings too. But at heart, I’m most aligned with the discipline side of the dynamic. I’m looking for a regular partner—a genuine connection with someone who shares these values. Friendship comes first, but if something deeper grows from that, all the better.
I’m not interested in fleeting encounters or married folk sneaking around. I’d like to meet someone single, ideally in their mid-thirties to late forties, and within a reasonable distance so that real, face-to-face connection is possible. I know it can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack—but there’s no harm in trying.
If we do connect, I’d prefer to meet for a drink in public first—something relaxed, easygoing. I’m calm, down-to-earth, and I believe in being upfront, respectful, and kind. If I read your message and don’t respond, please don’t take it personally—it just means I didn’t feel the match was quite right.
Discipline, to me, is a gift of trust. And if you’re someone who’s ready to receive that with an open heart, then perhaps we’ve got something to talk about.
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