go back to search results
Message her for free
Remember her
Newly moved into London and looking to expand my connections within the kink / fetish / D&S community. Both hoping to find deeper connections leading to longer term intellectual friendships and shorter no strings encounters that leave me choosing to stand on the tube ride home. I don't really see either as better or worse than the other, they both hold different keys to different needs.
Only just creating this profile, so will try and articulate my wants shortly... but for now some short fire cautions.... Sorry if they come across, preachy? Just been around the block enough times on other sites to know it's sometimes easier to just put things straight and avoid wasting both our time ☺️.
1. For me, with strangers, spanking is often highly sexualised, sometimes borderline erotic, but I'm not doing it as a sexual activity. So whilst all things will come out in negotiation, if you are looking for sexual gratification I'm probably not the right girl for you.
2. Power exchange is a huge part of this for me. As a result I expect to have a big say, as your peer, during pre negotiations. I have no interest at all in being "surprised".... But I do this because it allows me to relinquish more layers of control during a scene or meet, so you can absolutely take control emotionally and physically during in person settings.
3. I don't like to artificially beg, or call strangers daddy etc. My joy in this is the very genuinely intense emotional state that the submission or removal of my autonomy can create. So I would much prefer as much authenticity as feasible.
4. I am a trans woman, I don't use the trans label available on this site for a number of reasons, but given the nature of why we could be meeting it's worth me declaring! I have been on hormone therapy for several years, but haven't had any surgeries,.
5. On this site looking for impact play, be that hand or implements. So if you are looking for a back to paint in tiger stripes, thighs to tenderise or a bum to paint in a red, black and blue then perfect... But, as alluded to, power exchange is the actual emotional joy for me. So if you want to discuss combining with other areas of kink, I am absolutely opening to hearing your ideas.... Rope is a huge favourite of mine!
Sorry for the doom and gloom, I promise I am very polite really, and well hey... If I was a bit of a brat here you are in the perfect position to make me apologise!
Looking forward to hearing from you,
Lottie x
go back to search results
MusingInRed
New to London, not so new to preferring to stand!
| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | spankee |
| Location: | London |
| Age: | 25 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman, man, couple |
| Height: | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| Weight: | 11st 2lb (70.8 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | in last 3 days |
Message her for free
Remember her
Newly moved into London and looking to expand my connections within the kink / fetish / D&S community. Both hoping to find deeper connections leading to longer term intellectual friendships and shorter no strings encounters that leave me choosing to stand on the tube ride home. I don't really see either as better or worse than the other, they both hold different keys to different needs.
Only just creating this profile, so will try and articulate my wants shortly... but for now some short fire cautions.... Sorry if they come across, preachy? Just been around the block enough times on other sites to know it's sometimes easier to just put things straight and avoid wasting both our time ☺️.
1. For me, with strangers, spanking is often highly sexualised, sometimes borderline erotic, but I'm not doing it as a sexual activity. So whilst all things will come out in negotiation, if you are looking for sexual gratification I'm probably not the right girl for you.
2. Power exchange is a huge part of this for me. As a result I expect to have a big say, as your peer, during pre negotiations. I have no interest at all in being "surprised".... But I do this because it allows me to relinquish more layers of control during a scene or meet, so you can absolutely take control emotionally and physically during in person settings.
3. I don't like to artificially beg, or call strangers daddy etc. My joy in this is the very genuinely intense emotional state that the submission or removal of my autonomy can create. So I would much prefer as much authenticity as feasible.
4. I am a trans woman, I don't use the trans label available on this site for a number of reasons, but given the nature of why we could be meeting it's worth me declaring! I have been on hormone therapy for several years, but haven't had any surgeries,.
5. On this site looking for impact play, be that hand or implements. So if you are looking for a back to paint in tiger stripes, thighs to tenderise or a bum to paint in a red, black and blue then perfect... But, as alluded to, power exchange is the actual emotional joy for me. So if you want to discuss combining with other areas of kink, I am absolutely opening to hearing your ideas.... Rope is a huge favourite of mine!
Sorry for the doom and gloom, I promise I am very polite really, and well hey... If I was a bit of a brat here you are in the perfect position to make me apologise!
Looking forward to hearing from you,
Lottie x
go back to search results