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Sir4Discipline

Man Strict spanker to discipline lady spankee

Sex:Male
Orientation:spanker
Location:Halifax
Age:56 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:woman
Height:5ft 8in (173 cm)
Weight:12st 10lb (80.7 kg)
Preferred spanking:hard
Last login:in last 10 days

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I would describe myself as a Dom and Spanker with a sadistic streak, and can play light to heavy sessions, although saying that I am a caring, sensitive person and gives aftercare and very thoughtful and a gentleman and I like to share both the lifestyle privately with someone like minded while I don't live it 24/7 and I like to share vanilla activities too if in an intimate relationship so like to share both aspects. I love live music and go to a lot of gigs of different genres and like to take a companion with me who enjoys the same, going to the theatre walking in nature and visiting places of interest and fine dining, I like to support my local community and volunteer helping others.

I’ve been into the life style for a very long time although only been in 3 monogamous relationships in last 20 years that developed into long-term including one 4-year marriage which didn't work out for us and we ended it mutually / divorced (2016)

My most recent relationship I met originally as spanking partner friends met on here 7 years ago and then we became a couple in a distance relationship as we have our own homes 45 miles apart– while we never got as far as living together permanently our relationship as a couple has ended last year due to unforeseen personal circumstances due to my ex's health and conditions that has made it difficult for her to continue and manage being a relationship and out of respect and understanding for her needs moving forwards accepted the arrangement we had as a couple had to end for her welfare and worked with her so we still remain friends and keep in touch though not as a couple now.

I am in a position looking for a new companion with common interests to share and I am not with anyone else currently.

I love submissive ladies with a willingness to be disciplined, able to take moderate to severe disciplinary spankings on the bare bottom. Ladies who wear their disciplinary bruises and marks with pride.

Looking for a female sub/spankee/masochist, someone who would like to meet up on a regular basis, I can travel or accommodate although does have some limitations, someone local would be ideal but not essential I can travel reasonably as I have my own car - if you can accommodate

I enjoy giving Corporal Punishments for disobedience, humiliation, training or breaking rules, and regular mistakes, accountability, stress relief, guilt relief for past transgressions, and motivation.

Favourite Spanking Categories: spanking, whipping, caning, paddling, discipline.
Favourite ideal Spanking/bdsm partner: A lady that craves spanking/caning/paddling for punishment and discipline and restraints and sensory play, I enjoy nipple play and wax and restraints and consensual sexual play, wax, safe sex, orgasm control – impact play and obedience play and would consider roleplay, domestic servitude

A lady with high threshold that loves more sadistic impact play is most welcome as well as introducing a newbie with support to introduce and find their limits and support to explore with care endorsed by my previous partners

I have a collection of spanking implements, including canes, paddles, slippers, whips, floggers, tawse, and more, I have some portable equipment although I don’t have a space of my own for my own play area, just a small residential home I could accommodate in for intimacy.


I love to give proper spankings and corporal punishment for punishments and discipline and would be a good match for a lady with a high threshold.
Would consider/like a spanker/spankee friendship
Would consider/like a Dom/sub friendship
Would consider/like a Mentoring role for a newbie curious sub lady wanting to explore
Would consider/like a sado/masochist friendship
Would consider/like a LG/DD friendship

I'm a very patient man, trustworthy, live a sober and spiritual life and I have been stopped smoking for over 12 years with no intention to start again.

if you are new/novice to this lifestyle I can ease you into it slowly, no rush and would never rush you or push you into something you're not comfortable with while I respect limits
I do like to push limits while 100% encourage safe consensual play with safe words in place that I would totally respect and not go past the limit.

I live in West Yorkshire, close to Leeds, Huddersfield, and Bradford. Since I drive, I can be more accommodating when it comes to distance if you can accommodate. I do have a modest house of my own, but because of my neighbours' proximity, it might not always be discreet being a back-to-back. Even though I have another location I could utilise, it would have to be with someone I know well. If you can accommodate and it is more suitable, I am very flexible to travel about 60-mile radius


PLEASE NOTE I am not looking for male subs as I am a heterosexual man so I won’t reply to enquiries from male subs as I am not attracted to be intimate or play with men at all - only sub/spankee ladies please.


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