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Looking for my girl for a domestic discipline relationship.
For as long as I can remember I have been fascinated by spanking.
I think about it all the time. What I am trying to say is that I am a spanko through and through.
My ultimate dream is to find my special spanko someone that I can develop a loving, trusting full time discipline dynamic with. I thrive on providing rules and boundaries and I crave having someone to hold accountable if they get lazy or step out of line. I am very much attracted to the submissive/bratty type. I am equally interested in recognizing someones achievements and hard work as I am in disciplining them but am not afraid to put them straight over my knee for a dose of the hairbrush on their bare bottom when needed at the same time. I want to find someone that I can help to grow, and cuddle them to sleep at night.
Although I do love obedience I enjoy dealing with a girl that can be stubborn and a bit of a brat at times. Generally all in good fun though. I think there is a fine line between bratting and being outright disrespectful. I will not tolerate that, and consequences will be severe. That line obviously moves depending on who I am with but once that line is crossed there will be no getting out of your punishment.
Traditional kinds of domestic discipline style spankings (and the cane) are my favourites. I love when a girl is bent over and you can't beat a good bare bottom hand spanking. Having said that, I have found implements have been quite successful in changing a girls behaviour in the past. I have been fortunate enough to provide punishments on a number of occasions but I am yet to find another pure spanko like me. Although I love sex as well, spanking is the most important to me.
As far as I'm concerned, lecturing and scolding are just as important as the spanking itself, and when done properly really add to the intensity. Having my dominance asserted through words, and them submitting by doing as they’re told. Telling them to go and fetch the implement, get into the position I decide, count the last 10 strikes out loud etc. And then having a physical consequence if they don't do as they're told. I also think there is a time and a place for other kinds of punishments such as corner time, writing lines, mouth soaping etc.
As harder limits I enjoy the wooden paddle and the cane and although I love delivering more severe thrashings to bring you to tears, it's all about the connection.
In fact, if you care about me and respect me, being told that I'm disappointed in you or that I'm appalled at your behaviour, would hopefully make you cry harder than if I gave you a sound caning.
But then lay with you on the bed, holding you as you sob it out, and making sure you know it’s all over, you’re forgiven and everything is okay again.
And as mentioned above, there are other punishments that can be used in conjunction with spanking to increase the intensity if needed.
Outside of spanking, I am ambitious, motivated and hard working. I won't go into my job here but I have a career that has taken a lot of training and hard work. I always give 110% to whatever it is I am doing, be that professionally or in my personal life.
Feel free to say hello.
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A Firm Hand
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | Brighton |
| Age: | 43 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 10in (178 cm) |
| Weight: | 13st 6lb (85.3 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | in last 3 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
Looking for my girl for a domestic discipline relationship.
For as long as I can remember I have been fascinated by spanking.
I think about it all the time. What I am trying to say is that I am a spanko through and through.
My ultimate dream is to find my special spanko someone that I can develop a loving, trusting full time discipline dynamic with. I thrive on providing rules and boundaries and I crave having someone to hold accountable if they get lazy or step out of line. I am very much attracted to the submissive/bratty type. I am equally interested in recognizing someones achievements and hard work as I am in disciplining them but am not afraid to put them straight over my knee for a dose of the hairbrush on their bare bottom when needed at the same time. I want to find someone that I can help to grow, and cuddle them to sleep at night.
Although I do love obedience I enjoy dealing with a girl that can be stubborn and a bit of a brat at times. Generally all in good fun though. I think there is a fine line between bratting and being outright disrespectful. I will not tolerate that, and consequences will be severe. That line obviously moves depending on who I am with but once that line is crossed there will be no getting out of your punishment.
Traditional kinds of domestic discipline style spankings (and the cane) are my favourites. I love when a girl is bent over and you can't beat a good bare bottom hand spanking. Having said that, I have found implements have been quite successful in changing a girls behaviour in the past. I have been fortunate enough to provide punishments on a number of occasions but I am yet to find another pure spanko like me. Although I love sex as well, spanking is the most important to me.
As far as I'm concerned, lecturing and scolding are just as important as the spanking itself, and when done properly really add to the intensity. Having my dominance asserted through words, and them submitting by doing as they’re told. Telling them to go and fetch the implement, get into the position I decide, count the last 10 strikes out loud etc. And then having a physical consequence if they don't do as they're told. I also think there is a time and a place for other kinds of punishments such as corner time, writing lines, mouth soaping etc.
As harder limits I enjoy the wooden paddle and the cane and although I love delivering more severe thrashings to bring you to tears, it's all about the connection.
In fact, if you care about me and respect me, being told that I'm disappointed in you or that I'm appalled at your behaviour, would hopefully make you cry harder than if I gave you a sound caning.
But then lay with you on the bed, holding you as you sob it out, and making sure you know it’s all over, you’re forgiven and everything is okay again.
And as mentioned above, there are other punishments that can be used in conjunction with spanking to increase the intensity if needed.
Outside of spanking, I am ambitious, motivated and hard working. I won't go into my job here but I have a career that has taken a lot of training and hard work. I always give 110% to whatever it is I am doing, be that professionally or in my personal life.
Feel free to say hello.
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