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Warm and confident man with a strict side
Sex: | Male |
Orientation: | spanker |
Location: | London |
Age: | 38 years |
Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
Marital status: | single |
I'm looking for a: | woman |
Height: | 5ft 7in (170 cm) |
Weight: | 10st 8lb (67.1 kg) |
Preferred spanking: | hard |
Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for freeRemember himI'm a warm, friendly, and confident man with a strict side. I’ve been interested in spanking for as long as I can remember—old movies, dog-eared books, the whole works. I love connecting with fellow spanking enthusiasts, including mischievous ladies who benefit from discipline being applied firmly to where it does the most good.
I’m in a happy long-term relationship with a partner who understands this side of me and is comfortable with outside play. I am *only* looking for platonic friends and spankees. Spankings with me are strictly non-sexual and my relationship boundaries are non-negotiable.
Also, gentlemen, while I appreciate the interest, I only top to female bottoms. However, I am happy to be friends with anyone who is well-mannered, considerate, and respectful.
When it comes to spanking, there are two dynamics I’m looking for:
First, firm but playful spankings. I've always had a soft spot for mischievous brats, and a little bit of sass will surely get my attention. I love the banter with spankees who (mistakenly) think they can ruffle my feathers. And I love even more that sudden look of panic when I start to roll up my sleeves and you realise you've finally gone too far. From that point, no amount of negotiating, pleading, kicking, or squirming will help you escape a very bare and very hot bottom.
Second, disciplinary spankings for real infractions. I understand the need for structure and consequences at different points in life journeys, and I admire people who are true to themselves. In discipline, I’m strict but caring. I take seriously every part of the ritual: starting with deeply listening, stripping-then-scolding (in that order) if your behaviour was not up to standard, authentic discipline, then full forgiveness—with hugs and aftercare—when it’s over. As always, up front communication and clear boundaries are requirements for me.
I’m based in central London and happy to accommodate.
Outside the scene, I’m a busy professional with regular travel, so please be patient if I don’t respond immediately. In my personal life, I adore travel, adventure, good books, and old museums—especially those with intriguing hints of the mischief our naughty ancestors got up to.
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