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I am a spanker and a spankee - although I rarely find both in one session.
I love spanking in all forms - but tend towards the straightforward spanking rather than the complex psychology of discipline.
I am happily married so not looking for sex, but happy to spank, and to provide caress or gentle massage as part of the lead in/aftercare.
For me, sometimes I need just a firm spanking leaving be sore and red, whereas other times I need to be spanked soundly - through my protestations and inability to stay still to the point where I am thoroughly red, stinging and most likely bruised, so that my mind is completely free of any thought but the pain, (but not to the point where I bleed). I find this thoroughly clears my mind - albeit that I cannot sit comfortably for quite a while afterwards.
I have mostly been spanked with hand, hairbrush and belt. Still waiting to get a good chance to experience the cane thoroughly.
When spanking I favour the hand, belt or brush - but have other toys and am willing to adapt to whatever is needed.
Boundaries are non-negotiable - we must agree what is acceptable and stick to it. Similarly I usually stick to the well understood safewords (Red=Stop Now; Yellow=Slow Down, reaching my limit).
I am sane, friendly and lean toward a consultative approach - but am able to carry through things if we have agreed them (i will not be put off by tears or your pain).
Get in touch if you are interested.
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alexqcrazy3736
Looking to spank, be spanked or both
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | switch |
| Location: | Andover |
| Age: | 52 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | married |
| I'm looking for a: | woman, man, couple |
| Height: | 6ft 0in (183 cm) |
| Weight: | 17st 9lb (112 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | online today |
Message him for free
Remember him
I am a spanker and a spankee - although I rarely find both in one session.
I love spanking in all forms - but tend towards the straightforward spanking rather than the complex psychology of discipline.
I am happily married so not looking for sex, but happy to spank, and to provide caress or gentle massage as part of the lead in/aftercare.
For me, sometimes I need just a firm spanking leaving be sore and red, whereas other times I need to be spanked soundly - through my protestations and inability to stay still to the point where I am thoroughly red, stinging and most likely bruised, so that my mind is completely free of any thought but the pain, (but not to the point where I bleed). I find this thoroughly clears my mind - albeit that I cannot sit comfortably for quite a while afterwards.
I have mostly been spanked with hand, hairbrush and belt. Still waiting to get a good chance to experience the cane thoroughly.
When spanking I favour the hand, belt or brush - but have other toys and am willing to adapt to whatever is needed.
Boundaries are non-negotiable - we must agree what is acceptable and stick to it. Similarly I usually stick to the well understood safewords (Red=Stop Now; Yellow=Slow Down, reaching my limit).
I am sane, friendly and lean toward a consultative approach - but am able to carry through things if we have agreed them (i will not be put off by tears or your pain).
Get in touch if you are interested.
go back to search results