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31, single submissive male. Love Female Led Relationships and Female Dominance. Lifestyle Femdom preferred. Note: Not a 'timewaster' for wanting to do things safely and patiently. Sub males have rights too and are human beings. Some people want to bark orders without getting to know me and even demanding money right away. That's not fair. It's reasonable to stay safe and be sensible. I won't be rushed into anything especially if money matters more than me.
Loves/interests:
- Spanking
- BDSM
- FLR/Female Led Relationship
- Pegging
- Facesitting
- Corporal Punishment
- Verbal Humiliation
- Hardcore Femdom
- Gentle Femdom
- Domestic Femdom
- Whipping
- Flogging
- Tawsing
- Paddling
- Slapping (receiving Face Slapping)
- Spitting
- Male Objectification
- Total Power Exchange
NOTE: To financial dommes/'findoms' - I am NOT a finsub as such, though I have given Dommes 'tributes' when I had been enticed to do so. However, I am most definitely a Lifestyle sub. Reading quite a few Domme profiles on here, I see a trend of the repeated use of the word, 'Timewasters' aka 'Timewasters need not apply'.
Well, I'm not a timewaster nor would I be regardless. I am not here to rock the boat or slow down anyone's apparent 'business model'. I am only here quite infrequently but do sincerely hope to find a serious Domina for a *real* Female Led Relationship.
If You're the kind of woman who expects hundreds of pounds for a few hours of shared Femdom passion, then that is not really what I'm looking for.
I have nothing against Findom and it's enthusiasts and practitioners, I'm just wary of it now as I've been fleeced a few times and messed around.
CLARIFICATION: A submissive male is a human being, NOT a 'mark' to be used and discarded. I don't mind buying someone I love as my Domina a lot of things, but that should not be extortionate nor solely focused on the financial aspect.
I repeat: I am a human being, first and foremost.
Before I'm a 'spankee' or a sub. Before I'm a man or anything else. I'm a Human Being.
I am not a walking money sign and I find it quite unsettling to be automatically treated like one right off the bat by *some* on here. And I'm rarely here, but intend to try harder to find my true Domina for a real FLR. Let's face it, NO woman is 'free' but it doesn't mean therefore, ergo I'm a complete fool just giving out money like I'm a high roller.
I'm not and never will be. Does that invalidate me as a submissive male because I'm poorer than other male subs whom get more enjoyment out of being rinsed by women who don't really care about their emotional well-being half the time or worse? Well, no. It doesn't invalidate me. Maybe it does to those Dommes solely/primarily interested in money. If money is the primary interest and concern, then we won't get along because that is not right for me and I consider it not right at all. Subs have feelings and desires too. Again, I still sometimes lapse into seeming to be 'like' a finsub but I am really not.
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BitchofMSpice
31, English submissive male looking for FLR
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spankee |
| Location: | Stockport |
| Age: | 32 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 11in (180 cm) |
| Weight: | 19st 0lb (120.7 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | very hard |
| Last login: | in last 30 days |
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31, single submissive male. Love Female Led Relationships and Female Dominance. Lifestyle Femdom preferred. Note: Not a 'timewaster' for wanting to do things safely and patiently. Sub males have rights too and are human beings. Some people want to bark orders without getting to know me and even demanding money right away. That's not fair. It's reasonable to stay safe and be sensible. I won't be rushed into anything especially if money matters more than me.
Loves/interests:
- Spanking
- BDSM
- FLR/Female Led Relationship
- Pegging
- Facesitting
- Corporal Punishment
- Verbal Humiliation
- Hardcore Femdom
- Gentle Femdom
- Domestic Femdom
- Whipping
- Flogging
- Tawsing
- Paddling
- Slapping (receiving Face Slapping)
- Spitting
- Male Objectification
- Total Power Exchange
NOTE: To financial dommes/'findoms' - I am NOT a finsub as such, though I have given Dommes 'tributes' when I had been enticed to do so. However, I am most definitely a Lifestyle sub. Reading quite a few Domme profiles on here, I see a trend of the repeated use of the word, 'Timewasters' aka 'Timewasters need not apply'.
Well, I'm not a timewaster nor would I be regardless. I am not here to rock the boat or slow down anyone's apparent 'business model'. I am only here quite infrequently but do sincerely hope to find a serious Domina for a *real* Female Led Relationship.
If You're the kind of woman who expects hundreds of pounds for a few hours of shared Femdom passion, then that is not really what I'm looking for.
I have nothing against Findom and it's enthusiasts and practitioners, I'm just wary of it now as I've been fleeced a few times and messed around.
CLARIFICATION: A submissive male is a human being, NOT a 'mark' to be used and discarded. I don't mind buying someone I love as my Domina a lot of things, but that should not be extortionate nor solely focused on the financial aspect.
I repeat: I am a human being, first and foremost.
Before I'm a 'spankee' or a sub. Before I'm a man or anything else. I'm a Human Being.
I am not a walking money sign and I find it quite unsettling to be automatically treated like one right off the bat by *some* on here. And I'm rarely here, but intend to try harder to find my true Domina for a real FLR. Let's face it, NO woman is 'free' but it doesn't mean therefore, ergo I'm a complete fool just giving out money like I'm a high roller.
I'm not and never will be. Does that invalidate me as a submissive male because I'm poorer than other male subs whom get more enjoyment out of being rinsed by women who don't really care about their emotional well-being half the time or worse? Well, no. It doesn't invalidate me. Maybe it does to those Dommes solely/primarily interested in money. If money is the primary interest and concern, then we won't get along because that is not right for me and I consider it not right at all. Subs have feelings and desires too. Again, I still sometimes lapse into seeming to be 'like' a finsub but I am really not.
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