AndyKP

Bi spanker, happy to accommodate most over my knee

Sex:	Male
Orientation:	spanker
Location:	Derby
Age:	42 years
Sponsoring:	I don't expect money
Marital status:	widowed
I'm looking for a:	woman, man, couple
Height:	6ft 0in (183 cm)
Weight:	13st 6lb (85.3 kg)
Preferred spanking:	hard
Last login:	5 months ago

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Never physically disciplined as a child, yet found spanking fascinating from my earliest memories. Guess I’m a hardwired spanko.

I’ve dabbled with receiving in adulthood, but much more into the supply side of things. As such, I appreciate all flavours of spanking and have put visitors over my knee; for genuine discipline and ongoing mentorship, for cathartic stress relief, and for more sensual sessions.

Not very experienced when it comes to role play yet, but game to try pretty much anything.

I don’t believe there’s any ‘one-size fits all’ way to go about things; Everyone has differing pain-thresholds, one person’s ‘hard’ is another’s ‘excessive’, so I tailor meets as appropriate. If you’re a new spankee, I’m quite happy to take things at your pace, and will never push you to anything you’re not ready for.

I’ve got experience with a wooden spoon/spatula, bath-brush and belt mainly, but more than happy to administer with just my palm - have been told I can deliver an excellent hand-spanking. I do also have a few canes, and I’ll swing them at a partner’s request; I practice the use of them safely, but to be honest, they’re not my favourite tool.

Safe, sane and consentual - words to live by.
No-one is a mind-reader - Communication and consent are paramount; all boundaries and expectations must be established beforehand and will be respected at all times.
If you’re looking for a chaste, ‘no nonsense’ approach, or something more, we can discuss that. But I generally reserve more explicit sexual activities for long-term relationships.

As a formality, I insist that initial face-to-face contact for a first meeting always be made in a public place for the comfort and safety of all involved. Concessions can be made for those traveling a fair distance, or who would prefer a video-call instead.

I don’t tend to travel, but can accommodate at home.
Generally available most evenings & weekends.

Drop me a message & let’s see where things take us.

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