go back to search resultsTrustworthyTom
Trustworthy, confident, discrete
Sex: | Male |
Orientation: | spanker |
Location: | London |
Age: | 44 years |
Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
Marital status: | divorced |
I'm looking for a: | woman |
Height: | 6ft 1in (185 cm) |
Weight: | 14st 9lb (93 kg) |
Preferred spanking: | hard |
Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for freeRemember himAn experienced, considerate spanker and mentor for women only.
I’m confident and professionally accomplished, and i’ve lived and travelled around the world over the years. I’m now based permanently in North London. I live in my own house on a quiet Victorian road, and can accommodate and travel for genuine people.
I’ve been spanking for over 20 years in relationships with female friends and partners. I always respect confidentiality and individual limits and boundaries. I’ve given spankings for the very first time, and on a more regular basis as part of ongoing relationships and friendships. The spankings have been for R/L issues or just for fun.
My philosophy is that a spanking should be mutually rewarding and consensual, tailored to the individual rather than pre-determined. I’m not into more extreme forms of BDSM or domination/humiliation. Over the years, my experience has been that spankings are best as part of wider friendships/relationships, with a healthy level of mutual trust and respect.
I’m interested in keeping in good shape, living well, and enjoy a wide range of music, theatre, galleries and eating out. I know London well and enjoy sharing my favourite places with friends. If i’m mentoring, i enjoy seeing people gain in self-confidence and helping them make real progress towards life goals or tackle bad-habits that are holding them back.
I’m looking to get to know someone first, and happy to have a first face-to-face meeting in a public place over a coffee or a drink.
Please no men or couples.
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