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I am a happily divorced man, kids grown up and (largely) gone. Life is good, but I just wanted to offer my services to a woman who feels the need for some uncomplicated fun or therapeutic punishment from time to time. Equally happy to meet a woman similar to my own age, or a younger woman seeking a mentor. (Sorry but I don’t punish men - just not my thing)
Spanking is a really intimate thing so I like to make a connection with the woman that I am spanking- ideally a friendship based on mutual respect and a sense of humour. I am not looking for a “girlfriend” at the moment so would not be the right person for you if what you really want is a long term relationship.
Equally, I am not one of those guys who will give your bottom a few little slaps and then demand sex. If we both get aroused and want to do something about it, that’s great but it is not something that I will expect.
I know that there is no shortage of spankers on this site, so why consider me?
I offer a combination of intensity and security. I have a lot of experience over the years. If you want something severe then I have the confidence to do that- I am skilled with a variety of implements, including the cane. Equally, if all you want is a spanking across my lap, that's fine too. Fine with role play but I don’t want to be “Master” or “Daddy”.
At the same time, you would be able to relax and feel safe with me. The only thing you would be worrying about is the intensifying sting in your bottom and whether you can take it (answer: yes you can - I will encourage you to stretch your limits over time, but I will never breach them). I am interested in building a friendship based on trust. I don't have a particular agenda of my own in terms of the kind of scenarios that I want to play with.
Everyone on here says that they are a "professional" man. I am an actual authority figure - a Director in a large public sector organisation - so being authoritative comes naturally to me.
Plus, well, "sane, single, solvent". I can't share a proper photo on here because my job requires a bit of discretion, but will be happy to once we get chatting. I am in good shape and look ok. I am good company. I have a pleasant comfortable home in central London that I would be happy to welcome you to.
If this is of interest then I would love to hear from you. Let's chat and see where we go.
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Firm Friend
Calm, kind, authoritative, experienced
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | London |
| Age: | 56 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | divorced |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 0in (183 cm) |
| Weight: | 14st 0lb (88.9 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | in last 3 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
I am a happily divorced man, kids grown up and (largely) gone. Life is good, but I just wanted to offer my services to a woman who feels the need for some uncomplicated fun or therapeutic punishment from time to time. Equally happy to meet a woman similar to my own age, or a younger woman seeking a mentor. (Sorry but I don’t punish men - just not my thing)
Spanking is a really intimate thing so I like to make a connection with the woman that I am spanking- ideally a friendship based on mutual respect and a sense of humour. I am not looking for a “girlfriend” at the moment so would not be the right person for you if what you really want is a long term relationship.
Equally, I am not one of those guys who will give your bottom a few little slaps and then demand sex. If we both get aroused and want to do something about it, that’s great but it is not something that I will expect.
I know that there is no shortage of spankers on this site, so why consider me?
I offer a combination of intensity and security. I have a lot of experience over the years. If you want something severe then I have the confidence to do that- I am skilled with a variety of implements, including the cane. Equally, if all you want is a spanking across my lap, that's fine too. Fine with role play but I don’t want to be “Master” or “Daddy”.
At the same time, you would be able to relax and feel safe with me. The only thing you would be worrying about is the intensifying sting in your bottom and whether you can take it (answer: yes you can - I will encourage you to stretch your limits over time, but I will never breach them). I am interested in building a friendship based on trust. I don't have a particular agenda of my own in terms of the kind of scenarios that I want to play with.
Everyone on here says that they are a "professional" man. I am an actual authority figure - a Director in a large public sector organisation - so being authoritative comes naturally to me.
Plus, well, "sane, single, solvent". I can't share a proper photo on here because my job requires a bit of discretion, but will be happy to once we get chatting. I am in good shape and look ok. I am good company. I have a pleasant comfortable home in central London that I would be happy to welcome you to.
If this is of interest then I would love to hear from you. Let's chat and see where we go.
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