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gentleman disciplarian for ladies & couples
Sex: | Male |
Orientation: | spanker |
Location: | Brighton |
Age: | 65 years |
Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
Marital status: | single |
I'm looking for a: | woman, couple |
Height: | 6ft 5in (196 cm) |
Weight: | 15st 1lb (95.7 kg) |
Preferred spanking: | hard |
Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for freeRemember himUPDATED June 2024
I am very experienced disciplarian, who can vary intensity according to the lady's wishes. I live in Sussex can visit elesewhere in Sussex, Kent London and along the south coast as far as Poole.. I am offering spanking discipline, so please if you just seeking kinky sex please do not contact me. Spanking can be very sensual in its own right. Sex to me needs to be part of a relationship and not casual. As my home is currently undergoing refurbishment i am at present unable to host, as i have done a lot in the past.
i WILL UPDATE THIS PROFILE WHEN I AM ABLE TO HOST AGAIN
I am quite happy to offer long unhurried but hard handspanking over my lap, not as a warm up, but as a complete spanking experience in its own right, with no implements other than my very large stinging paws!
However I do i have a large selection of implements too, if that is what you desire, I have been privileged in spanking ladies and couples for nearly 35 years. I am well educated, and with impeccable manners. prefer ladies/couples who are mature in their attitude and appreciate the benefits of a regular spanking can generate.. I can do limited role play too
I appreciate many ladies are quite rightly nervious of contacting strangers, be assured I will always act the gentleman in any chat or correspondence. I have spanked some wonderful ladies from across the UK, one tip i will give to both spankees and spankers, is do not expect to find the perfect spanking partner within a short distance of your home, spread your net a little wider and you will not be sorry. I prefer to use AirBnB and holiday apartments as opposed to hotel rooms when spanking away from home, much more discreet and soundproof!
Everyone is different with many reasons to wishing to have a good spanking or just advice. They want a safe enviroment and feel comfortable in exposing their bare bottom etc. Al;ways happy to offer such reassurances and I tend to be very patient in building up a relationship so do not expect to just exchange a couples of messages then meet up . Partners quite rightly will wan tto be present , to watch or even to take part, I am comfortable with such wishes.
I am looking for spanking friends rather than one off meets, but happy to do a trial session. I do "help" several couples and ladies whom I have known for several years
. Mutual respect does not mean I am not strIct but it means I respect ladies as equals who put their trust in me. Such trust needs to be earned and is not a given. I like to take pride in my appearance and appreciate ladies who do the same
Pictures etc,contact details, proof of identity and references can be sent to those interested
Several couples and a few single ladies have suggested that I make it clear on my profile I will spank/cane men but only as part of a couple, and any single men approaching me will be turned down politely. Thank you to the many who contact me, even if it is just for advice or a chat, you are most welcome. I have in the past disciplined lesbian couples , as they appreciate the fact that I would not dream of trying anything on or making a pass. Mutual trust and respect are my watch words.
When i discipline couples as opposed to just the wife, i will punish each as hard as each other, rather than just concentrating on the wife. I will listen to limits, wishes and desires before any meeting and respect them. many ladies and couples are naturally nervious and have trepidation of submitting to a single man. This is quite understandable and i am a patient gentleman and like to build trust before any physical meeting
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