Mistress Ruth

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51yrs female spanker, Dalton

Mistress to discipline you, telephone & video

Last online in last 10 days

I expect money
I'm married
looking for a woman, man
5ft 3in (160 cm)
9st 2lb (58.1 kg)
I prefer hard spanking

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Always well presented, attractive with high standards I am Miss or Mistress Ruth an experienced professional spanker available for discipline by email, online video, telephone and in-person sessions. I also offer a range of other kink and fetish services. Based in the south lakes area of Cumbria my preference is to travel to you, I can however occasionally accommodate in a homely domestic setting, and or when my life takes me to other places. Whereever I am I adapt to fit the situation and subject to informed consent, plus safety considerations, your preferred role. Experienced with disabilities, a range of ages and situations respect is two way.

*Dumfries & Galloway Scotland session September 2026 - contact me directly for details - deposit essential*Greater Manchester September & October 2026*

I have a range of implements to chose from including canes, sjambok, leather strap, tawse, hair brush, riding crops, slipper, paddles, bath brush, hair brush, plus a couple of custom made surprises up my sleeve. I have a selection of whips - designed for use in small spaces. I also enjoy using private collections.

Other BDSM & Kink services I offer include;

Domination
Foot worship
Shoe and boot fetish
CBT
Chastity
Restraint
Sissy training
Latex, PVC, leather
Other fetish items eg Dr Scholls, Hunter wellies
E-stim

All equipment, premises and myself are cleaned thoroughly immediately after each session. Fully Covid-19 & Mpox vaccinated aware of vulnerability of some of my clients, I test at least twice a week for Covid-19, and regularly have full health checks.

Disciplinary emails, personalised video, webcam, telephone call, and SMS text available if you cannot meet in person, or wish to supplement your sessions.

Deposits and payment for online services by bank transfer, balance for in-person sessions only payable by bank transfer or cash.

I always respond to well written, respectful & succinct enquirers. However I do not have the time to enter into back and forth chat, I prefer to save my energies for delivering a great spanking. In your initial contact you must address me as Mistress Ruth, provide your requirements, limits, experience and method of delivery. The ball is then in your court, those who are genuine understand.

One-line, rude or demanding messages are unlikely to receive a response. All session enquiries require direct contact by email or telephone from a non-withheld number.

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