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FearOfTheCane

Experienced switch for online chat, maybe more.

Sex:Male
Orientation:switch
Location:Potters Bar
Age:60 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:woman, man
Height:6ft 1in (185 cm)
Weight:20st 9lb (131.1 kg)
Preferred spanking:hard
Last login:online today

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I'm mainly looking for people to chat with online.

I've been fascinated with spanking, slippering and caning for almost as long as I can remember.  I love to discuss this thing we do, and since the main UK spanking chat site closed down a couple of years ago, I've missed it a lot.

If the chatting goes well, then maybe things might develop into something in person, if we both want it, however that's not required: I have one dear friend with whom I've chatted for over 15 years without ever meeting, due to extreme distance.

Schools, in both real-life and comics & storybooks, were a big influence on me, although not the only one.  Domestic scenes appeal a lot too.  Despite my username, I also like gentler, more loving scenes, and few things can better a good old-fashioned over-the-lap handspanking.

Nevertheless, when I was young, the thought of someone having to wait outside the Head's office before being called in and told to bend over both terrified and excited me, hence my username.  The whole ritual of the nervous wait, the butterflies in the tummy, the twisting fingers, followed by the inevitable hot and sore bottom is a scenario that has always had a terrible fascination for me, whether it was the thought of it happening to someone else, or to me, or the thought of giving out the punishment myself.

As an adult I've been exploring this, from both sides, in real-life for over twenty years now.

With that in mind, it's worth saying that although I'm overweight (but losing it), I also seem to be considered reasonably attractive and am presentable.  I hope to get some photos up soon.

I would prefer to chat with women, but in the past I have had good conversations with some men too.  Although I'm 95%+ straight, the Headmaster/schoolboy dynamic is a fantasy that keeps tugging at me from time to time and that I like to explore, from both sides. NOTE: I do not do OTK nor hand-spanking with men, either way round. Likewise I do not engage with sexual activity with men, however pleasuring ourselves separately may well be acceptable.

If any of the above appeals, do get in touch.

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