Lady Pandora

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Quintessential Discipline

Sex:	Female
Orientation:	spanker
Location:	St Helens
Age:	63 years
Sponsoring:	I expect money
Marital status:	single
I'm looking for a:	woman, man, couple
Height:	5ft 0in (152 cm)
Weight:	1st 1lb (6.8 kg)
Preferred spanking:	very hard
Last login:	16 hours ago

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I am known as the 'Quintessential Disciplinarian' for good reason. I am a Lifestyle and professional Disciplinarian with 45 years' lifestyle experience (25 years as a Professional Disciplinarian), specialising in traditional, English-style CP in the classical sense. Every session is tailored to the individual and their needs on the day.

What I can promise you is that I neither lie nor misrepresent myself as so many on this site do. You can rest assured that you will always get precisely what you need - nothing more and nothing less.

As well as one-to-one Play, Punishment, Funishment and Judicial sessions, 15/30 minute Maintenance sessions, 20-minute Interview with the Headmistress/Magistrate, etc. and online/phone sessions (directed self-spankings, setting lines, impositions, tellings-off, etc), I also provide bespoke programmes targeting specific goals, life/business coaching, counselling, tuition and mentoring for lifestylers and professionals.

I cater for discerning people - males, females and couples - at all levels from complete newcomers to highly experienced people and everything in between. Do be aware there is absolutely nothing sexual permitted although, of course, I am comfortable with you being fully naked. I, however, will remain fully clothed in my usual dignified manner.

I do not allow safe words - there really is no need for them when playing with someone who is highly experienced, and they defeat the whole object in my opinion as far as my style of play is concerned. When we enter my 'playroom' there will be absolutely no doubt that I have taken full control and I will hand it back only when the session has ended.

I am happy to play with or without a roleplay. The only roleplays that are essential are during my Judicial sessions and my 20-minute Interview with the Headmistress/Magistrate sessions in order to properly set the scene and the tone.

Do also note that I offer purely CP and Discipline. That means no CBT, no nipple clamps, no 'slaves', no 'sissies', etc. If you wish to 'dress' for your session I have no objection, but you will need to bring your own clothing with you. The only bondage I indulge in is securing a person to my Fetters bench or to my high fixing point should you request a Judicial Flogging (with my Cat o' Nine Tails). I also do not provide humiliation outside of the roleplay and I do NOT carry out 'small penis humiliation'.

Be aware that I am not a 'service top'. We will agree on session parameters beforehand, and then I will take control. I will not be manipulated and I will not work to a script.

x Then you have those ‘professionals’ who use a provocative pic to advertise and then squawk when someone asks if they provide "extras"... misleading at the best, misrepresentation and fraud at worst. In 45 years 'on the scene' I have never flashed my stocking tops, nor my cleavage. I have no desire to engage in false advertising.

This is the most intimate and personal part of our lives and it should be treated with respect, dignity and understanding.

On this site are several females who claim to be lifestyle Disciplinarians, when they are in fact subs within the lifestyle. There are also other things to watch out for, especially women who constantly hold "sales" - this is often indicative of them being desperate for clients, as they aren't very good! Hopefully, this profile will help gentlemen, although every person must be responsible for carrying out their own due diligence. If in doubt, ask me and I will help if I am able to.

My advice is to never send a deposit to someone who is not well-established - you will have no recourse should the person disappear, as they often do. Nor should you fall for any sob stories requesting train fares, phone card top-ups, etc. – they are invariably a scam. Take no notice of the 'verified' status on profiles - it just means that a text was sent to a phone and responded to; no checks are carried out and it means nothing.

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For further details on any of the above, please contact me via DM on this site x. I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Warm regards,
Lady Pandora

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