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Hello, I’m a professional man aged 48 in London, with a lifelong interest in spanking.
For me it’s really about the discipline side. I am a spanker. I guess I like the control of it. They always say you'd shouldn't analyse all this very deeply, but I suppose in a simplistic sense I feel like I have more control in this arena than in any areas of life.
I have always found the rituals involved very appealing, along with the general matter of fact nature of it and no nonsense approach. I suppose I see it all as a kind of drama really, and I find the whole process from start to finish compelling.
The language is a key element, with certain trigger words and phrases always playing an important role in this. Phrases like ‘young lady’ and 'naughty girl' and 'sore bottom' are central to this fascination for me. I think scolding is crucial, and I always lecture a naughty girl before she goes across the knee.
I suppose I’m quite particular with what I like. Over the knee is my favourite position, using a straight backed chair. I prefer the spanking to be over clothes first and working down. With corner time at various stages during. Mostly using hand and hairbrush.
Which brings me to perhaps my greatest love in this world, the embarrassment. The shame involved has always struck such a chord with me. A grown woman needing to be dealt with like this. I would say my speciality is to deal with ladies that may feel they have become a little too big for their boots, and perhaps if they’re honest would admit they could do with being taken down a peg or two. Maybe the word ‘uppity’ resonates for you? It really does with me, if it does with you too, I reckon there’s a chance we could have an understanding.
I am very comfortable taking a mentoring role, it's something I have done quite a few times over the years. I have seen it work too.
Age and looks really aren’t a big deal for me. It’s all about attitude. If the other person doesn’t really have a similar appreciation and regard for discipline and its associated dramatics, I don’t think this really works for me. It becomes a bit smack, smack, smack in that case. I need the whole package.
To the important honest part now. I am married. Very happily so. My wife knows all about this interest of mine, and about me meeting other people. There are no secrets. That does mean I am only interested in spanking and discipline.
Apart from that, what to say about me? Well, I’m pleasant and decent, with good humour. I am totally discreet. My main interests are travel, writing, radio and singing. Travel is probably my greatest passion. I have incurable wanderlust. I have visited around 80 countries. After the miseries of the pandemic, I was delighted to visit Los Angeles last year for the Super Bowl. I also had holidays in Iceland and Malta recently, and am looking forward to a trip to the Faroe Islands. I am usually planning my next trip, it keeps me ticking over.
After a lot of cynicism from me about this site - and there are some time wasters here, no question - I have met a couple of really nice people in recent times. So I know they do exist now.
Thank you very much for reading. I hope to hear from somebody.
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NickTraditional
A traditional spanker in London
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | London |
| Age: | 51 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | married |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 2in (188 cm) |
| Weight: | 12st 3lb (77.6 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | hard |
| Last login: | in last 30 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
Hello, I’m a professional man aged 48 in London, with a lifelong interest in spanking.
For me it’s really about the discipline side. I am a spanker. I guess I like the control of it. They always say you'd shouldn't analyse all this very deeply, but I suppose in a simplistic sense I feel like I have more control in this arena than in any areas of life.
I have always found the rituals involved very appealing, along with the general matter of fact nature of it and no nonsense approach. I suppose I see it all as a kind of drama really, and I find the whole process from start to finish compelling.
The language is a key element, with certain trigger words and phrases always playing an important role in this. Phrases like ‘young lady’ and 'naughty girl' and 'sore bottom' are central to this fascination for me. I think scolding is crucial, and I always lecture a naughty girl before she goes across the knee.
I suppose I’m quite particular with what I like. Over the knee is my favourite position, using a straight backed chair. I prefer the spanking to be over clothes first and working down. With corner time at various stages during. Mostly using hand and hairbrush.
Which brings me to perhaps my greatest love in this world, the embarrassment. The shame involved has always struck such a chord with me. A grown woman needing to be dealt with like this. I would say my speciality is to deal with ladies that may feel they have become a little too big for their boots, and perhaps if they’re honest would admit they could do with being taken down a peg or two. Maybe the word ‘uppity’ resonates for you? It really does with me, if it does with you too, I reckon there’s a chance we could have an understanding.
I am very comfortable taking a mentoring role, it's something I have done quite a few times over the years. I have seen it work too.
Age and looks really aren’t a big deal for me. It’s all about attitude. If the other person doesn’t really have a similar appreciation and regard for discipline and its associated dramatics, I don’t think this really works for me. It becomes a bit smack, smack, smack in that case. I need the whole package.
To the important honest part now. I am married. Very happily so. My wife knows all about this interest of mine, and about me meeting other people. There are no secrets. That does mean I am only interested in spanking and discipline.
Apart from that, what to say about me? Well, I’m pleasant and decent, with good humour. I am totally discreet. My main interests are travel, writing, radio and singing. Travel is probably my greatest passion. I have incurable wanderlust. I have visited around 80 countries. After the miseries of the pandemic, I was delighted to visit Los Angeles last year for the Super Bowl. I also had holidays in Iceland and Malta recently, and am looking forward to a trip to the Faroe Islands. I am usually planning my next trip, it keeps me ticking over.
After a lot of cynicism from me about this site - and there are some time wasters here, no question - I have met a couple of really nice people in recent times. So I know they do exist now.
Thank you very much for reading. I hope to hear from somebody.
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