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What I am seeking
I am a kind, humorous professional guy, looking for a woman to share my spanking fantasies. I am totally happy to play in a non-sexual context, if that is what you are after. Having said that, I am single at the moment. A relationship with spanking as part of the magic would wonderful! But of course I know, and respect, that that’s not what everyone here is looking for. Maybe your fantasy scene is a chaste parental one, for example, or perhaps you’re simply seeking some discipline in your life, and think that the fear of a sound spanking might be what’s needed to keep you on the straight and narrow.
What I can offer you
I think that a great deal of the enjoyment around spanking goes on in the head, and takes place outside the play: imagining or planning a scene, the roles (if any) to be played, the formal ritual to be followed, the clothing to be worn (and perhaps lowered or removed), the exact position in which the punishment will be administered, the implements (if any) to be used, and so on. It can be huge fun, I find, to discuss these details beforehand. (If you prefer the tingle of not knowing quite what’s coming, that too can be arranged…) Anticipation is also key. If you know you’re going to spanked at 4pm tomorrow, it’s hard to think about much else…
The punishment itself should be formal and unhurried, and the actual strokes, for many people, are not really the point. (Of course, if you enjoy harder play, that’s also possible. If you’re brave enough to venture beyond hand-spanking, I have a variety of implements which give subtly different sensations of varying severity: amongst others, you can experience a real school tawse, a genuine French martinet, a cane, or my favourite, a traditional bundle of tiny birch twigs applied to the bare bottom – the effect is cumulative…).
At all stages, you must feel comfortable and safe, and communication is key. I have a large flat and can accommodate, but I strongly recommend meeting up first for coffee or a glass of wine on neutral territory. There are some weird people around, and you should verify I’m not one of them before any actual play! We will discuss beforehand what your boundaries are, and of course these will be totally respected. Safewords during play are essential too.
I would love to hear from you, and perhaps help you develop and realise your fantasies. Please do drop me a message if you would like to chat.
Tobermory x
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Tobermory5
Friendly professional seeks spanking partner
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | spanker |
| Location: | Glasgow |
| Age: | 62 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 6in (168 cm) |
| Weight: | 12st 7lb (79.4 kg) |
| Preferred spanking: | light |
| Last login: | in last 30 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
What I am seeking
I am a kind, humorous professional guy, looking for a woman to share my spanking fantasies. I am totally happy to play in a non-sexual context, if that is what you are after. Having said that, I am single at the moment. A relationship with spanking as part of the magic would wonderful! But of course I know, and respect, that that’s not what everyone here is looking for. Maybe your fantasy scene is a chaste parental one, for example, or perhaps you’re simply seeking some discipline in your life, and think that the fear of a sound spanking might be what’s needed to keep you on the straight and narrow.
What I can offer you
I think that a great deal of the enjoyment around spanking goes on in the head, and takes place outside the play: imagining or planning a scene, the roles (if any) to be played, the formal ritual to be followed, the clothing to be worn (and perhaps lowered or removed), the exact position in which the punishment will be administered, the implements (if any) to be used, and so on. It can be huge fun, I find, to discuss these details beforehand. (If you prefer the tingle of not knowing quite what’s coming, that too can be arranged…) Anticipation is also key. If you know you’re going to spanked at 4pm tomorrow, it’s hard to think about much else…
The punishment itself should be formal and unhurried, and the actual strokes, for many people, are not really the point. (Of course, if you enjoy harder play, that’s also possible. If you’re brave enough to venture beyond hand-spanking, I have a variety of implements which give subtly different sensations of varying severity: amongst others, you can experience a real school tawse, a genuine French martinet, a cane, or my favourite, a traditional bundle of tiny birch twigs applied to the bare bottom – the effect is cumulative…).
At all stages, you must feel comfortable and safe, and communication is key. I have a large flat and can accommodate, but I strongly recommend meeting up first for coffee or a glass of wine on neutral territory. There are some weird people around, and you should verify I’m not one of them before any actual play! We will discuss beforehand what your boundaries are, and of course these will be totally respected. Safewords during play are essential too.
I would love to hear from you, and perhaps help you develop and realise your fantasies. Please do drop me a message if you would like to chat.
Tobermory x
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